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The smoky bitterness is hitting me right in the middle of the eyes. A brass key and leather strap lingers beneath and I try to ignore it. It was as if I was branded with novelty. I hated being a tourist. I was not here to explore. I had been here, twice, and it had nothing to do with the lace or the booze or the ticket or the free pass. Allow me to explain: this journal extract was written about 30 minutes after I fled an all-female sex party.
I Attend A Sex Party In NYC Every Month. Here's What Happens There.
If you've never been to a sex party, what do you picture them looking like? Sweaty orgies where people penetrate one another as a way of saying hi? Some other intimidating, sordid fuckfest that's probably best left to more extroverted, hyper-qualified sex-havers than the likes of you? You're not necessarily wrong, but there are plenty of sex parties where you'd fit right in. Super-elaborate sex parties do exist—as do super chill, casual ones.
In a closet across from the tub, a woman is using a vibrator and moaning loudly. The rest of the master suite is crowded with limbs and faces buried between legs. The air smells like sex, but sweeter—perfume, plus sweat, minus men—and marijuana. This is Skirt Club , a members-only society of nearly 11, women around the world, most of whom are in committed hetero relationships and identify as bi-curious or bisexual. Started in by a woman who saw a need for exclusively female sex parties, what was once a small gathering of 15 friends in London is now a full-fledged enterprise with approximately 50 parties per year in 12 major cities around the world.