Top definition. The Lizard. Depending on his mood, this creature can be big or small; public or private. He will come out of his cage and play when he is in a state of elation; and when depressed, he tends to stay hidden from the outside world.

And the very best you-on-top sex positions make the most of this intimate interplay. But often, it is. Tried-and-true favorites are classics for a reason: They offer fun, excitement, and connection in equal measure—no stretching, balancing, or doing the splits required. Not to mention, the you-on-top sex positions space extends far beyond cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Mounting your partner during sex has been around as long as sex itself, so the genre has seen its fair share of inventive iterations. Top sex positions can get as soft and intimate, as bold and dominant, or as adventurous and acrobatic as you want them to.

The bad news is what works for one woman might not work for another. See, there may be some hope after all. Where should you start? But so do most things that end up being worthwhile.

IT IS assumed that, as Jamaicans, we always have sex on our minds because of the various raunchy dance moves and songs that are a big part of our culture. However, in spite of early exposure to sex, many Jamaicans, especially men, do not have a clue as to how to please their partner, sexually. Women also complain that some men are too eager to reach the finish line, forgetting that it is not about who comes first, but about mutual pleasure.